Hannah's Prayer
 Community Forums  

Message Board Ministries
Previously Known As Ladies In Waiting 

They that WAIT on the Lord will renew their strength! 

Isaiah 40:31

Hannah's Prayer Community Forums are the message/bulletin board branch of Hannah's Prayer Ministries (HP), growing out of our Ladies In Waiting (LIW) email lists and HP Email Pals programs.   If you are interested in joining any of the following groups, please confirm that you are in agreement with our Statement of Faith and our views on Faith and Fertility.  The steps for joining the Community are below (you may wish to print this page for reference).  Once you are a registered member of our Community, quick links to each forum are listed under our groups offered option.  If you have any questions, you may email our Community Administrator at liw@hannah.org.

Ladies In Waiting began as an informal group of Christian women who met on AOL and Christianity Online message boards in 1994 (about the same time Hannah's Prayer was being formed).  The concept behind "Ladies In Waiting" was the feeling that we are always waiting: for a baby, for a period to start (or hopefully for it not to start), for a doctor's appointment...  But most importantly, we are all called, as Christians, to wait upon the Lord. As Julie Donahue strove to connect her dozen or so email pen pals, this small group of women started exchanging regular emails to offer one another support in the midst of their shared journeys through infertility.  Soon the group established themselves as an email "club," exchanging the bulletin board systems where they had met, for a series of email list.

As LIW grew, it became a more formalized ministry, yet never had the resources to legally become its own entity.  In May, 2001, LIW was officially incorporated into HP.  (Hannah's Prayer has been a registered non-profit organization since 1995.)  As of August, 2002, God has carried the ministry of LIW  "full circle" as we return to bulletin board format with the launching of our own message boards, renamed the Community Forums of Hannah's Prayer.  We offer Christian-based internet support for married, Christian women (husbands, if your wives are active in this ministry, we desire to provide a few special resources for you as well) surviving the physical, emotional, and spiritual struggle brought on by fertility challenges.  As we find ourselves in families that do not fit the picture of what we had imagined them to be by now, we strive together to find contentment in God's plan.  

Our membership comes from diverse backgrounds, both personal and spiritual: While many or our members have never been pregnant, some have faced one or more miscarriages, ectopic pregnancies, or even stillbirths and infant deaths.  Some have one or more biological children and are dealing with secondary-infertility.  There are several adoptive moms in our group, including survivors of adoption losses.  A few are pioneers in the brave new world of embryo adoption.  Some of our members are just beginning to ask if there is something medically wrong, while others have already exhausted all medical options.   The Lord has led some members to not seek any kind of medical aid while others have prayerfully delved deeply into assisted reproduction methods.

Our ages range from late teens into early 50s.  Our marriages (and time dealing with fertility challenges) may be newlywed or spanning more than twenty years of experience.  While most of our members live in the United States of America, we span over 100 countries and cultures.  We are interdenominational, meaning that are members come from many church backgrounds, but are all agree to abide by our central Statement of Faith as we share common views about Faith and Fertility.  Some members have spent their lives attending church, some are new to a personal relationship with Jesus Christ, some have faith but feel very far from God right now.  With all of our differences, we all have at least these four things in common: we are married, we are Christians, we are women, and we are seeking God to aid us in surviving our fertility challenges.

Join the Community

Because infertility has a life-long effect on us, and because we are not all at the same stage, our Community Forums provide over 70 specific regional and topical support groups.  If you have a unique need that you don't see addressed by our existing groups, we are always open to suggestions!

Once you have read our Statement of Faith and views about Faith and Fertility, if the Hannah's Prayer Community seems like the place for you, go to HannahsPrayer.orgYour screen will read, "You do not have permission to view this board."  From the "Useful Links" (bottom left of your screen) select, "Register a new account."  You will need to choose a username and password, give us your email address and agree to our terms of service.  Please note, username and password are Case Sensitive.  (Example:  If I register with the word aPple, the I must use aPple each time.  Apple, or apple or APPLE or appLe will not work.)  You will then be sent an email to confirm your registration.  Click the email link to activate your account and you are on your way!

If you have any questions or encounter problems with your registration, please contact our Forums Administrator.

Groups Offered:

First time visitors, please join the Community before trying to access these links.  

Emblem indicates this is a specialized group with additional password protected required.  If you desire to join any locked forum, you will need to go through the above described general application process, then contact the email associated with that specific forum, found on the description of the group in the Community Forums master board.

Welcome to the Community

Before You Post
- message board welcome, policy, guidelines and governing documents

How Do I?
- tips for using the message boards, including a Guided Tour and list of commonly used Acronyms & Abbreviations

Hannah's Prayer History & Leadership Introductions

Introduce Yourself
- getting to know one another, tell your story

Community-Wide Interest
- topics of general interest to many of our members 

 

Infertility Forums

Trying to Conceive
- less than 1 year or new to the world of infertility

TTC Naturally
- TTC (trying to conceive) without treatment

Primary Infertility
- no living biological children

Secondary Infertility
- one or more biological children

Family of Two
- childfree choice

 Hope of Pregnancy Ended
- medical causes

40-ish
- members near or over 40

Step-Parent Infertility
- husband/wife has child from a former relationship

The Ladies In Waiting logo was designed by Robin H. 

 

 

 

 

 

Local Community Connection

Post information about yourself and any known support in your geographical area.

United States

International

 

Leadership Forums

Starting / Running Local Support Groups 

Pastors and Partners

Leadership News
- password available only the members of the Hannah's Prayer leadership team

 

 

 

 

Pregnancy / Infant Loss Forums

Postpartum After Loss
- funeral plans, drying up breast milk, theological questions about loss

No Living Children

First Loss

How Could This Happen Again?
- recurrent losses

Early Losses
- failed IVF, ectopic pregnancy, blighted ovum, molar pregnancy, chemical pregnancy, 1st or early 2nd trimester miscarriage

Late Losses / Stillbirth
- pre-term or full-term

Infant Death

Losses In Multiple Births 
- loss of one/some/all in twin or higher pregnancy

Trying to Conceive After Loss

Medical Forums

Frequently Asked Questions

Embryo Adoption/Donation
- for those interested in, considering or pursuing embryo adoption/donation.

Chronic Health Challenges
- illnesses such as cancer, MS, Chronic Fatigue Syndrome, fibromyalgia, diabetes, heart disease...

Endometriosis

Male Factor

PCO or Annovulation

Tubal Factors

Cycle Buddies
- surviving the "two week wait"

ARTs
- Assisted Reproductive Techniques

 

 

 

 

 

Special Support Resources

Prayer Requests
- limited to infertility, conception, pregnancy-related and pregnancy/infant loss issues

Reading Resources
- HP Lending Library, Book Reviews & Recommendations, Helpful Articles, Book Studies...

Hannah to Hannah Newsletters
- HP Lending Library, Book Reviews & Recommendations, Helpful Articles, Book Studies...

Military
- active duty, reserves/National Guard, retired

Weight Issues
- receive support whether you are trying to lose weight, find a "fat friendly" doctor or have questions

Facing Loss
- dealing with the loss of a family member (parent, grandparent, sibling) while coping with infertility, pregnancy and/or infant loss

Love & Marriage
- share ideas about how you make your marriage stronger

Spiritual Head of Home
- husband does not share your faith

Annas
- single after fertility challenges

God's Grace
- post abortion recovery

Look Up
- depression support

 

 

Adoption & Foster Care

Adoption Losses
- early "leads," death of to-be-adopted child, relinquishing placement

Adoption Announcements

Considering Adoption

Waiting Room
- yet to bring home the child or finalize paperwork

International Families Adopting
- non-US families

United States Domestic Adoption

Adoption of International Children
- adopting a child from any country other than your place of citizenship 

Foster Care
- interested in fostering and current foster parents

Adoption/Foster Prayer & Praise

 

Off Topic

Celebrations
- Wish your friends a happy birthday.  Celebrate an anniversary.  Rejoice in significant landmarks.

Life Outside Infertility
- What are your interests?  Are there others in the community in the same vocation?  Tell us about your furry children, animal babies.  There really is life outside of infertility, so let's find it together.

Doing Business
- Do you have a business you want to share with Community members?  Home parties, websites, consignment, eBay?  Or are you looking for ideas in starting your own business?  Here's a place to share ideas without being "pushy" because other members will only read your posts to this forum if they are interested in the topic.

 

Pregnancy

Pregnancy/Birth Announcements

Pregnancy After Infertility
- share this unique experience with others who understand what you are feeling

Pregnancy After Loss
- after any form of fertility challenge

Pregnancy Complications
- bedrest, preterm labor and more

Negative Prenatal Diagnosis
- carry your unborn baby to term despite his or her fatal condition

 

Parenting

Special Moms
- raising children with special needs (physical, emotional or mental)

Moms of Newborns
- adoption or birth, the delights, questions and fears a new infant brings

Motherhood
- when you need a friend who will listen without saying, "You asked for this!"  Infertility does not negate your right to be a "normal" parent.

Adoptive Parenting

Parenting Adopted Multiples
- twins (or higher) adopted multiples

Parenting Onlies
- parenting an only child (adopted, biological or step)

Multiples
- mothers of multiples, as well as those that are pregnant with twins or more

Moms of Many
- 3 or more children (includes biological, adopted, step and foster children).   Some members have completed their families; others are still working on them

 

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Hannah's Prayer Ministries
www.hannah.org
PO Box 168
Hanford, California 93232-0168
USA

E-Mail: Hannahs@Hannah.org

Voice Mail / Fax: (775)852-9202

Hannah's Prayer is a California based, non-profit 501(c)(3) organization, established Jan 1, 1995. All staff members are unpaid volunteers who are proclaiming Christians (from a range of denominational backgrounds) and have personal experience with the heartache of fertility challenges.  This ministry and website are made possible by your tax deductible contributions.

This web site was established in April, 1996.  For website related issues, please contact the Hannah's Prayer website administrator, Jill SherbrookeThe Hannah's Prayer logo was designed exclusively for Hannah's Prayer by Rick Saake Hannah's Prayer pages are Copyrighted. © 1996-2004, Hannah's Prayer Ministries. All rights reserved.